Feel free to skip all this back story and go to the question at the bottom, lol.

*So my partner and I are expecting, I'm counting the days now, and we're staying with my SO's brother and sister-in-law who have an 8yr old and a 2yr old.

The idea was for us to live together for a while and help each other out. There plenty of room and his brother had a great job lined up for my SO.

BUT my problem is, the sister in law does absolutely nothing. She only acknowledge her oldest child's behavior once her husband is here, she lets her youngest pretty much do whatever until her husband gets home.. and she just sits there or goes shopping.

Now, whatever I don't care about that but seeing as my in-laws are slobs and I am not, I clean everyday. Which is normal. But I have to DEEP CLEAN every, single day and as soon as they get home they TRASH the place (the son will spit on the floor, she leaves dirty diapers on the floor, they eat and don't put anything away etc.)*

Question: Rooming with slobs..How can I handle this? I feel like it's not "my house" so I am not allowed to complain. But when is enough enough? Her husband says he's embarrassed and he has said something to her about helping me out by just doing simple things like throwing away dirty diapers..