Lately, in an effort to prove to my mum how good they are, people have been offering their help to me. Actually, not even offering — I don't get a say. This is help I don't want, then they get mad at me when I don't respond. They also get mad if I make mistakes (like driving mistakes with my Aunty or forget to do a job application for my Dad).

Does it make me ungrateful for being annoyed at this unwanted help? If I needed help I'd ask...

Do you ever help people to make yourself feel good? Is that kind of help genuine?