marriage advice

Ok ladies, I have been married for 6 years & the longer we are married the more i feel like he is trying to control my decisions. I opened 2 credit cards under my name to improve my credit score ( since we are house shopping) and in case of any emergencies. When i informed my husband he LOST it , screamed at me to close the accounts & if i EVER did it again he would divorce me. I work 40+ hrs a week & make 40,000+ a year. He tells me that i cant go back to college ( he doesn't want to pay for my loans),but when we got married it was under the condition i WOULD return to college. These are just a few examples & im not sure if this is "typical" marriage issues or if hes trying to control me.