So yesterday we met our fertility specialist that we can hardly afford. I went through the blood work and the ultrasound with the nurse practitioners and the doctor literally came in for 1.5 minutes to say I needed an hsg get the next day per my cycle. I scheduled it around work. I got to my hsg appointment at 6am, tired and nervous and they told me last minute my husband wouldn't be joining me. that made me instantly nervous as he is my partner and my rock. Then they sent a male doctor to do every thing. I have been very specific with my need for a female doctor only due to a sexual assault on my 12 year old self many years ago by my male doctor. I don't think it's unreasonable so long as I am up front and tell everyone far in advance. So they sent my original doctor who came in visibly annoyed. I felt like I had just ruined the world by reminding them of my circumstance. So she just starts getting me on the table and starts performing the hsg test without telling me what was happening. if you have had this test you know how very uncomfortable it is and that it's worse when no one is telling you what sensations you will feel. I started crying from anxiety and she finished the test and told me I really need to think about whether I am fit to have a child if I cant get through a simple test without crying. the nurse went and grabbed my husband because the comment she made made me really start crying then. of course when he walks in shed suddenly very kind and understanding. she still had the nerve to tell my husband we needed to have a serious talk about whether I could handle it. she judged me after knowing me for 5 minutes. Then she told us the tests looked ok from wht she could tell but that she would need to give them closer look at her office. later my husband called to ask for the results and was told they would upload them onto the online patient portal as soon as they were ready. just now I logged in to see a message from the doctor saying that just as she explained to us in lengthy detail in person that the results were normal. I have no idea what this woman has against us but good god...i don't know what to do...