Can’t orgasm?

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The ONLY way I’ve ever been able to orgasm is by humping something hard like a water bottle or end of a table/counter. 
I have a vibrator and a dildo and a boyfriend and penetration and the vibration feel pretty damn good but it’s never anything that makes me feel like I’m close to orgasming. The only thing my boyfriend does that allows me to reach orgasm is he’ll get a hard on and then let me get on top of him and let me grind on his hard dick until I cum. Is this normal? Anyone else do this?

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I'm the same way can't orgasm from just penetrative sex

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You’re not alone! I have this problem too. The only way I can have an orgasm is if I’m on top during sex. I’ve have vibrator that goes in me and another part goes on my clit. I’ve been able to orgasm with that just once but it took me awhile to reach it. I’d like to try to use it more and just practice and maybe that will make it easier, but it seems impossible. It would be so nice to be able to orgasm in other ways!! 😩

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Try rubbing on your clit while he is doing you

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What if he rubs your clit while having sex? I always thought it was weird for me because I have to have stimulation there and penetration for me to reach O.

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this is completely normal!! i was the exact same way in the beginning of teaching myself how to orgasm but eventually this phase went away and it's easier for me to orgasm in multiple different scenarios now. it take practice to really get to know your body

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I can only orgasm by riding my SO, from the stimulation on my clit. even tho he is inside me at the same time, I definetly know it's not the penetration that gets me off. also when he eats me out I get extreme pleasure but never have I orgasmed, maybe because he doesn't rub the same spot long enough. have you tried this ? I too wish I could get off in other ways... glad to see I'm not the only one.

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Also relax your mind! And let it come, don’t tense... before having a baby I could not orgasm. Now after having a baby and being emotionally connected to my boyfriend I orgasm from sex atleast once every time we do it. I had to learn to relax my mind and let it happen

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i can relate. im a very hard person to make orgasm. i did finally find a boyfriend that touched me just right n makes me have an orgasm every time almost! its amazing. n its just him for some reason. i have no odea why.

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Definitely not alone! I've never orgasmed from penetration. It took a while for my boyfriend to figure out how to get me off with his tongue though and now he's a pro at that at least. Anyone have any advice on ways I could possibly get off during penetration though? I will say when it starts to feel good or starts building, he usually cums before, so I never will know if he could actually get me off.

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Same here too but my husband loves me on top and even if I don't cum I feel good with him I do wish that we could do it normal but it doesn't work LOL

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