I posted all this in another group but didn't get much help.. i need real advice here not just "leave him" he's 22 I'm almost 21 we just moved to a new apt. I've had my cat for 9+ years, I never had an issue with her going to the bathroom in the house until a couple years ago when some traumatic shit happened. I've been with my s/o for almost 2years and we've lived together most of that time. the cat few accidents at our old place(s/o was pissed) and she pooped in his car when we were moving to the new place which made him blow up and kick us out. I'm on the lease but my cat isn't.

here are our messages... sorry for the long post, I have no one else to talk to about this

(we live in Colorado and sm heoke weed and by shit machine he means my cat)

he hasn't responded.. was going to send him this

UPDATE

soo I sent him that long ass message I wrote up.. he said this