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So I don't really know how to feel at all. My ex and I were trying for a baby, we ended up breaking up but in between I got pregnant. I found out after he already moved on (yes he moved on very quickly). He is now back in my life but still has a girlfriend. He tells me I'm not going through this alone but I feel alone anyways. He's not here when I feel sick or need him the most. I live with a broken heart every day. Anyone else ever have to go through something similar? Sometimes I feel like I just need someone to talk to..

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yes I did and he kept talking to me, telling me he loved me while living his girlfriend. I think it was to keep me holding on to him in case they broke up. He's the biggest piece of shit that I've ever encountered, wish I would had seen he was doing me a fuckin favor by leaving back then. My dumbass took him back and it was nothing but a miserable hell for years. Makes me sick to think how stupid I was. Anyways, all you can do is try to move on. I wouldn't talk to him unless it was something about the baby and you had to. There's good men out there that'll love you and your baby.

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When I was pregnant with my first my boyfriend at the time broke up with me when I was 14 weeks along! He pretty much told me if I wasn't going to move in with him it wasn't going to work out! I went a month with out him calling it even texting me to ask how the baby was or how I was! Once he left the little girl he was messing around with he decided to come running back and at that point I told myself that my baby deserved more and I was not going to get back with him as much as it hurt I just could not put myself through the stress! We barely talked the whole pregnancy and he only saw me once pregnant but I still decided to call him the day I had my son so he could be there for the birth. We ended up back together but only for 3 months and I broke up with him because he was constantly lying to me and just a jerk! 3 days after he already had a new girl! As much as I didn't want to be with him I still loved him and it still hurt! My son is so much better off with out him in his life honestly! The few times he's seen him he tries to teach my child bad things like how to flick people off and cuss words because he thinks it's so funny! I don't even take my child around him anymore! My husband now is who my son calls dad it's the only "dad" he's really ever known! I'm so grateful for my husband. The moral of my story is you and the baby are probably better off with out you being with the father especially if he could just move on so quick and not try to work things out with you when your carrying his child! One day you will find a guy that will accept your child like his own! I know right now your hurt and how horrible it feels trust me I was in that place but things will get better! Just focus on your baby and keeping yourself healthy!

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