Boring marriage

Ugh has anyone else experienced this? It’s tough. We have been married for 2.5 years, together for 7.5 years total. I’m always trying to find new and exciting things for us to do together but even when we go out we don’t have much to say to each other. We spend most nights on separate couches on our phones/tablets with a movie on. We don’t have sex that often anymore and I honestly never have the urge to. I don’t know how to fix things and I’m afraid I’ll start seeking attention elsewhere 😣 this sucks.