I have only experienced this with women, and I noticed it over and over again.

Girls will open up to you, about anything. They'll tell you their deepest darkest secrets and desires and life stories like they are trying to bond with you and then start shit.

Or just talk shit behind your back.

Like,

You just told me that you like to lick your own butthole and now you're saying all kinds of WHAT? About me.

You'd think, after you tell someone something so private you ought to avoid pissing them off.

Good thing I'm not into this drama mess and don't care about this at all because if i was some petty beast like some of these women I'd tell everyone and your momma that you licked your own ass once.

I don't understand this crap. At all.

Example: I met a girl and she told me about her mom dying, got emotional about it and opened up to me and told me how she felt and all that. Told me little things like how getting her nails done reminds her of her mom. Basically told me her life story up until her mothers passing. And then she told me she's secretly planning to take out her IUD so she can trick her man into getting her pregnant.

And then, I find out she told everyone I stole from her and that I'm a bitch blah blah

I don'T KNOW WHAT SHES TALKING ABOUT. I was never even aware that she had a problem with me.

I'd like to have "girlfriends" seriously I have the potential to be one loyal ass friend.

But this is all that ever comes out of it.