Is This Appropriate Or Should We Not?

So,

I've been going back and forth with when to tell our friends and family. After losing my son on January 15th, 2017 at 22, almost 23, weeks pregnant and then having an early miscarriage in July, it's been hard to decide if I want to tell people for the support, if something were to happen again- praying so hard that this is our sticky rainbow baby- or if I want to wait as long as possible.

Either way, I know that I won't be announcing it to the Facebook, social media world until later in the pregnancy..

I will be exactly 20 weeks on my Myles's birthday in January. I'm thinking about announcing it then, but I don't want to take away from "his" day, if that makes sense?

What do you ladies think?