My husband doesn’t get it...

I have been feeling so overwhelmed.. I just need to vent. I know other moms do it but I feel like I am about two seconds from having a break down...

My hubs travels for work so this past week he hasn’t been home in about a week and a half. I recently went back to work working part time at a retail store so my hours are sporadic and I have a few nights a week that I have to close the store so I am usually picking my kids up from a babysitter around 9:30/10. On top of all of that my son is now struggling in school and having issues with his teacher. We also have a 16 month old who has just recently become a handful and is into everything. And then to add to that I am struggling with finding reliable sitters and someone who is good to our kids while I work.

Tonight we left the kids with a second cousin.. I know she is a good person and good to our kids but tonight when I went to pick up my kids the house wreaked of cigarettes.. my kids stunk of cigarette smoke and they obviously smoke right in the apartment. I am at such a loss.. idk what to do anymore. I don’t make a lot of money at my job but I enjoy working and bringing in some extra money..

So tonight I told my hubs that I just feel overwhelmed and he went off about how I am so focused on everything that I am doing alone and that I’m not focused on working as a team and all that he is doing to try and help. Am I wrong to be frustrated and overwhelmed with everything?

How are you other moms multitasking and dealing with working and juggling the family?