Baby Shower Problem

Okay so I’m in a pickle and I need some opinions ..

I’m having my baby shower in January but because it’ll be cold I’m having it at my moms house, inside ..

I have a BIG family and for that reason I really think it should be a “girls only” baby shower so we all fit.. but I feel like some girls get offended if they can’t bring their husbands especially family ..

my husband won’t even be home he’ll be deployed so I just don’t see why I HAVE to have a coed one .. but I don’t want to hurt peoples feelings or start family drama.. what do you guys think??