weight allowance😡

I'm 14 weeks 1 day. I started this pregnancy at 209. At my appointment on Thursday I weighed 205. That's right I lost weight. Yay! So I'm talking to the Dr and she is asking normal questions about this pregnancy and then asked me how much I gained in my last pregnancy. So I told her. 30lbs didn't seem like a bad # to me, not to mention 20 of it I lost just having my daughter. well she looks at me and tells me I'm only allowed to gain 20lbs, but you have lost 4 pounds already so your on a good track. no body worried about my weight my last pregnancy and I weighed 212 at the begging of that pregnancy. I'm just annoyed that she even brought it up knowing I had already lost weight