Military wives drama 👀

Anyone else realize that a lot of military wives act worse than high school girls?!?! I was friends with a fellow army wife recently. Her husband left for deployment and my husband and I have done every thing we could to help her out. We had only been friends for 6 weeks at the most before things started to go downhill. My husband kept telling me he didn’t like the way she treated me but instead of listening to my husband I ignored his worries and continued to try and be kind to her. I even went and brought her food after she had surgery, I told my husband “one day you’re going to be deployed and I hope that other wives reach out and help me when I need it”. A couple weeks ago her and I went out to lunch and then to the mall we were just talking. And I’ve been dealing with a lot lately as well, my husband is dealing with some depression (he’s much better now) and I have always battled depression. So I knew how I would want him to handle it. Instead of pushing therapy on him I was just supportive and tried to understand my husband more. Anyways she brought up the depression my husband was dealing with and told me how I needed to handle it. She said that I needed to go behind his back and schedule him appointments with a counselor. And I really shouldn’t allow my husband to go out with his friends so much (once every 2 weeks where his friends and him go out to eat then go play video games at one of their houses). Also I allow my husband to dictate everything in my house. Just a little bit of information we do make decisions together however if my husband says he feels like we should do it a certain way I respect his decisions. Lastly she told me my husband is boarder line abusive because I’ve changed over the time she has known me. This really upset me because this woman barely knows me and has know idea how my husband is behind closed doors. He is the most gentle person I know, he has only ever spoke and touched me in loving ways.

After I came home my husband knew immediately something was up because we know each other that well. I tell him the story and my husband was hurt because he was raised to belittle a woman in anyway makes you less than a man.