Am I clingy?

Question

So I was in an abusive relationship for quite a while. That left me really fucked up in a lot of ways. I finally started to heal and started seeing someone again. We text quite a bit while doing things, but never really get to spend any intentional quality time together. Is it okay to feel like this is something I need or am I just being too clingy?

Answer

Quality time is really important when you come out of any abusive relationship. Fellow victim. But there is a difference between clingy and just wanting to spend time with someone.
I used to be really clingy because of my past. If you find yourself feeling that way... then maybe spend some time on you.
My husband knows I have special needs because of the holes that were brought from my abusive relationships before and he knows what he cannot do because I don’t tolerate it. Sometimes I have to remind him 😑.
Its all about balance and finding that person that’s able to work through it with you.

Am I clingy?

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