IUD is causing major pains!!

So I’m new to the IUD . I was on the Depo shot but that caused bad depression so I changed to the IUD and I’ve had it in for several months now .

The first month it was so painful . I had pains . They felt like cramps but also felt like the same pain when it was being put in. It’s such a sharp pain that it’ll linger on to my tailbone and the outside of my vagina(inner thighs) .

I had those pains for a while . Thought it was not normal so I went to go get checked up . And they told me it was perfectly aligned and hasn’t moved , but that I should wait 3 more months with it in....... I waited..... and the pains just get worse .

-When I have sex with my man it hurts....

-When I haven’t ate all day the pains come along.....

-When I get super cold I get these pains.....

When I push(sounds funny but to fart) it hurts....

-When I’m just at work (hair stylist) I’ll get these pains and I’ll just tense up in the middle of a haircut because of the pains....

The three month marked has came up and I was like okay the pains haven’t been constant like before.... so me and my man had sex to test the waters... week after I still didn’t get the pains... and Im like yeeesss they are gone, my utuerus has gotten used to the IUD....😒

BRUHH.. I spoke to soon I got the cramps/pain.... BUT now I’m bleeding . Throughout my whole IUD experience I never bleed bright red ! But now I am.

I’m so scared that I’ve listened to what the doctor told me that I’m just putting myself at more risk for cysts, infection, damaging my uterus...

I’m so confused and conflicted .

Should I wait a while longer and see if it’ll slowly work out or just take it out!!??

Ive so far spent up to $500 dollars in this 6 month IUD trial .

And for me to take it out it’ll be $200 !

I’ve invested so much of my savings for this . I’m so upset that I spent this much money and hoping and believing doctors that it’ll get better but it hasn’t .