Guilt Trip over elected C-Section

I’m in tears, I just told my mother that I’m electing to have a c-section ... and she totally criticized me and made me feel sooo awful. Like I’m not a real woman or mother for electing one. Mine you, this is my 4th child will be my 2nd c-section (last one wasn’t elected) and I don’t want to deal with the risks of a V-Back. I’m so hurt! It’s so frustrating! I’m over 30 yrs old, I swear I shouldn’t be feeling like this 😩😓😢😭