Boyfriends Asshole Friend

So, since my boyfriend and I had our baby his friend is getting has constantly got all upset about him never having time. On one hand I get it but then again he has no energy left to do anything. He tells his friend this all the time and that he’s busy which isn’t a lie and fails to understand. The only time his friend calls or texts is when he needs something which is usually a ride. I’m a stay at home mom at the moment because that’s what’s best and my boyfriend agrees 100%. So I text his friend today because he keeps getting him upset. His friends is nice one day and an asshole the next for no reason. I’m tired of it because it then effects our relationship. My boyfriend can’t stand up for himself but says that it’s because it’s not worth it. I basically text his friend to stop being a dick to him when he’s never done anything wrong to him and he inly take to him when he needs something but never does anything in return. Of course he gets defensive and starts talking about me and how I don’t work (he thinks all women should work no matter what) and that I have my boyfriend “by the balls” and don’t let him do anything (yet my boyfriend goes out every single weekend and before that he had a job and was always working night shift) and how I’m too stuck up and insecure to let anybody watch my baby even though everybody works in my family and my boyfriends let our child fall down a flight of stairs because she doesn’t watch kids well. And then I text something back basically repeating myself and again comes for me saying that I don’t let him go out because What my boyfriend did to me two years ago (he kissed someone else) which yeah i hate that that happened but his friend just cheated on his girlfriend and was dating two people at once for months. I’m just confused how he has room to judge 🤦🏼‍♀️and saying that nobody “fucks with” my boyfriend. But he has friends and goes out EVERY weekend. Idk I feel like he’s just trying to make up shit to piss me off because you can tell he don’t know shit. I’m literally the one with no life that’s is home 24/7 and lets my boyfriend go out that way nobody can say that. I’m always the one at fault. No matter what I do. I know his friend is wrong about a lot of things but I still run what was said through my head constantly.