HELP with bf's parents!!!

I already posted a version of this story this morning, but I want to see if the night eve girls have anything to say.

SO...I've been with my bf for over 3 years now. For the first 3 years, I was dorming at my college, so would see him Thursday's-Sunday's. I still only see him those days, but I also sleep over those days since my work is by his house & it's easier since I live an hour away.

So my bf plays college football but has been out for the season since he got a bad case of rhabdo in April that hospitalized him for 3 days. On Saturday, he told me he wanted to go back to his trainer. I was really happy for him, as he's finally getting back into the groove of things.

We get to his house & he tells his dad only that he's going to his trainer the next day. They ended up having a 30 min convo by themselves about how his dad wants to be more involved with his training & what not since he hasn't been. The night goes on & we finally lay down in bed to watch a movie I've been dying to watch all week. Right when we lie down, his mom calls him to the kitchen. We're both like

He goes & all of a sudden I just hear her yelling asking him why he's going to the trainer (she thinks his trainer caused him rhabdo even though he's gotten it before he was with his trainer). She said some pretty horrible things to him which I would never imagine a mom saying to her son. My bf didn't even yell back, he tried to just talk to her but obv got frustrated. We went to bed & the next day while I was at work they made up. I was still heated at what she was telling him, but he told me to just drop it for him. So I did.

Everything was fine...the next morning when I was leaving I said bye to his mom as normal & she did as well. Yesterday night I was planning on leaving to go home but without me knowing my bf & his mom got into another argument. I was just lying in bed waiting for him to get back (I thought he was getting chocolate milk). When he came back into the room, I could tell something happened. He didn't tell me what it was, but he was frustrated. I didn't say anything, I was just there to cuddle with him.

My bf said it was best if I stay the night because he wasn't sure if his mom was on the couch & it would be really awkward if I leave. So I stayed. This morning was going perfectly fine & good. I was planning on leaving when my bf did for class in the morning. RIGHT as were about to leave, his dad comes out of his room.

I'm in my bf's room & the door is slightly open. As he was walking by he asks my bf "Are you alone? Nope...never mind." as he sees me. He did know I was still there as my car was parked outside & he saw it when he got home...but I was like okay ouch & kept packing my stuff up.

His dad tells my bf that they need to talk &I; my bf tells him not now because he's going to be late to school. His dad really didn't care & continued to talk to him. His dad basically told my bf that he shouldn't talk to his mom that way & that he needs to say sorry (even though she said super horrible things to him...things I never would think a mom would say to their child). My bf said no he doesn't think he should say sorry as that's what she wants him to say. His dad literally told my bf he needs to be a man & man up. That he's the man here & he needs to say sorry. I was like

Right after he said that, he told my bf "& she needs to not come here for a while. Like a long time." Directing it at me. I didn't even hear what my bf's response was, as I instantly started tearing up.

My bf came in the room & tried his best to console me but was running late to class. He told me it's okay & that I'll still be able to come over on Thursday, he just needs to talk to his dad. I literally cried in my car for 30 mins wondering what I did wrong. Since my family wasn't home for the day, I called my bf & asked if it was fine to go to his school so I can do hw & he can help me with my essay. He happily agreed. So there I was at his college, looking super unhappy because I really was.

So he helps me with hw & we finally talk about it all since we never got the chance. I told him I was stressing & feeling miserable as I have no idea what I did. He told me I didn't do anything & that everything will be okay. Even though I live an hour away he was really considering sleeping over at my house, as he couldn't handle his parents today. He ended up going home & I ended up going to my little brothers game near by. I totally forgot some of my stuff in his room so after the game I went back to his house. I had to pee really badly so I decided to go in super quickly. As we were walking in my bf said "she's just here to use the bathroom". They didn't say anything or even acknowledge me. It was super awk.

As I left 2 mins later, still ignoring me as they're all sitting at the dining room table. As I was leaving I asked my bf what I did wrong. He said nothing, that they're just embarrassed as to what happened. I said they should be, but shouldn't treat me like crap & purposely say stuff directed at me to hurt me, as I did nothing. My bf said everything will be fine, & I left. Now I'm home & confused as ever. I'm terrified that his parents will tell him I can't come over (even though we're 21) & literally ban me from their house. I SO badly want to move out & so does he, but we don't have the means to.

My bf wanted to ft me rn but I told him I just need to relax for a bit & take a shower. He's being really sweet & told me to take my time. I just don't understand why his parents drag me down with them...like always. One time they were arguing & after they made up with my bf, they made a comment that I was being rude to them (even though I had no idea I was or even was being rude). I'm like the sweetest girl ever & wouldn't do that. I just feel like they have something against me & are really fake towards me. I understand it's their house & that we're old enough to do as we please/move out/etc. but it's not that easy. I'm stressed, & all I wanted to do was be happy & not overthink for once...but here I am. What can I do??!?