Depressed & disappointed

I had a baby 2 weeks ago and I feel so lonely... I have a 1 year old and I am home with them all day, which I understand that it's my job as a mom, but when the husband gets home he is cranky and of course he is tired and hungry so I have to cook and clean and wash his clothes and I feel like I get no help at all... I haven't even taken a shower in 2 days because he is to tired to watch my 1 year old and when I'm done washing dishes and picking up a little around the house it's time to feed the baby again so I do that and then I am to tired and just go to sleep. Lately if I say something it annoys him, which he has said before that I do annoy him 😔 sometimes, but I guess some couples feel that way about each other. I literally have no friends at all, yes I do know people but not for me to go out with and have a coffee with. I have children from a previous marriage and it seems like it annoys him that they are here, by the way he talks and when I say that they need or want to go somewhere or they want something his response is "and" or "there is no money". I really wish I had one friend to talk to, but I have to come to this app to let things out because he and I never talk, and I have no one to talk to. How sad is my life?, but I have made my bed so I should lay in it... 🤷🏻‍♀️