When they blame you for pre ejaculation

Question

My husband plays the blame game all the time during sex if he can’t hold it long enough for me to orgasm.  He says it’s because I’m too tight I think he thinks he can use that and not get yelled at because I guess it’s sort of a compliment.  Not to me it’s an excuse that he thinks is going to get off the hook with!  Thoughts ladies?!

Answer

I️ mean there’s ways around that if he would learn some control. There’s other ways to make you cum. If he’s too close to finishing and knows you haven’t orgasmed yet he should pull out and focus on you until he’s back from the edge a bit. Cunnilingus, fingering, kissing caressing. Blaming you is so lazy and totally not a compliment.

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I was with someone before that was like that, and I made him wear a condom because he would last longer, then when I was able to finish he could take it off and finish. However, we were just fwb so the situation may be different in a relationship. TBH, I think that when guys blame their quick ejaculation on the girl, they are insecure about finishing so quickly and it's sort of a defense. That is just my opinion though!

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Lol not to be mean but same😒 I love my hubby and he can sure work it in the sack but sometimes he'll use the excuse oh you just teased me so much or that I did oral on him too long😒

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My boyfriend usually starts off with his hands/ light thrusting and gets me off first. Then he goes to town. Try that!

When they blame you for pre ejaculation

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