I guess its just my depression mixed with crazy hormones from having a baby that's been bothering me lately but we planned to leave early today to go somewhere since we live a good distance from it and he didn't get up so I tried to wake him up he wouldn't get up so I tried again he said "I promise I'll get up" ok 30 minutes later still not getting up I said I can just go without you so you can sleep and he got a really mean tone and said "you're about to piss me off don't ever say something that stupid again" ...all I meant was he could just stay home and sleep since he was so tired and my hormones after having the baby two weeks ago are still messed up and little things upset me 😐 I'm ready for them to be normal again so things won't brother me anymore.