Normal or justified?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have a child together. Not long ago I found porn on his phone. It has happened before and I told him I just wasn't comfortable with it. I try to always make myself available and open to anything he wants to do sexually so he doesn't have to look elsewhere. This time I was extremely hurt. I have had severe post partum since my son was born and low self esteem because I haven't shed my baby weight. So the question is, are you ok with your man looking at porn?

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as long as I don't see it I don't care.

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Nope. Neither of us look at porn. We’re married to one another and we go to each other with our needs. My husband used to until I told him how it makes me feel. Once he heard my perspective he actually came to agree with me and dropped it immediately. Our marriage definitely feels better since it’s just the two of us pleasing one another.

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I’m cool with it. I also watch porn so it’d be hypocritical if I told him not to lol

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I think each person is different. You either care or you don’t and it seems like you do. (I️ care too!) He should respect your wishes and refrain from watching.

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I’m personally okay with my husband looking at porn just as he’s okay with me looking at it as well. We even watch it together sometimes to get new ideas or if we’re feeling a bit freaky. But he’s in the military so there’s times where we go months without being together so if he wants to watch 2 girls going at it and jerk one off and he’s fine with me watching 2 girls going at it and getting off then I see no issue.

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I don't care what he does to get his rocks off (as long as he's not cheating obvs). Porn, no porn, whatever floats his big boat. I wouldn't want him telling me what to do or not to do while masturbating. I'm sorry you're feeling insecure about this ((hugs))

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Personally I never cared for porn because I'd rather have actual sex with a real person maybe it's just that men start watching it at such a young age nowadays even before they lose their virginity perhaps that they seem to be addicted to it. I don't think it should be considered normal however it seems to have become that way sadly.

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I am

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Totally normal. I'm okay with my husband watching it as long as it's open that he does.

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we both watch it, sometimes together, sometimes not. we have three kids together, and sometimes find it hard to get a little love in the day, self love helps keep us calm and relaxed! 😂

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