Break up 🙃

So my boyfriend of 2 years moved an hour away due to “work”! He dropped the bomb he was moving a few days before he left and he told me he wanted a break! I told him I don’t believe in breaks and we could see each others on the weekends and he agreed so we stayed together! So yesterday I was suppose to go and see him and as I was walking out of the door he texted me and said “sorry I work until 7:30” yeah I was pretty annoyed but I said “okay have a good day I’ll talk to you tonight”

A few hours later I see him on Snapchat in a car so I thought maybe he was on break I didn’t think much of it. We shared location with each other so I checked it a little after I saw that snap chat and he was home... so my blood was boiling at this point and I texted him and said “you’re a liar if you didn’t want to hang out with me you could’ve said so instead of lying” well he texted me back 5 hours later and he had been sleeping all day because he’s sick. So I said “okay feel better” about 5 minutes later he texted me saying “you’re a great girl but I can’t be with you anymore” I was so confused and still am. I didn’t shed one tear though I did all of my crying last week when he told me he was moving.

We had a trip planned next month and he was suppose to propose to me so I heard we’ve been trying for a baby since March. I’ve always wanted kids soon but I stopped my birth control so soon because he was the one that really wanted to settle down and start a family.

Recently he started getting a little controlling. So my sister lives away at college and I was going to drive up to see her with dinner and spend the night in her dorm. And he completely flipped out about it as if I was going to cheat on him or go partying. He also made my best friend of 13+ years and I not be friends for a little while because he didn’t like but I refused to let him tear my friend ship apart.

But anyways he screwed me out of $700 for the trip and lied about paying for the hotel. I had to cancel his ticket and re buy one because my best friend said she’d come so I wouldn’t be completely screwed out of money. I thought I was dating the man of my dreams. I held him down for so long, I would give him money when he wasn’t working that much to pay for things I would drive him around everywhere because he doesn’t have a car I put 20,000+ miles on my car in a year and a half just to make sure he was good and got to the places he needed to be. I don’t even know if he really is working while he’s down there. I’m glad I got out when I did I love him but everything happens for a reason and I believe god has a plan for me!