Boyfriends Family

So my boyfriend and I decided that we were going to stay home and spend Christmas together with our daughter because we can't afford to go to two separate states to spend time with both families and we don't wanna have to pick between the two. Well my boyfriends family has been guilt tripping him into coming home for Christmas and how they miss him and it's selfish of him not to go home. So that made it where he was glad he wasn't going home for Christmas this year if they were gonna treat him like that. Then guess what! His parents buy him and ONLY HIM a plane ticket to their state so he can go home for Christmas. So not only is he going there, he's missing Christmas with us, AND he's missing our daughters first Christmas all because they bought him a plane ticket and made him feel bad saying they can't return it and they really hope he won't make them waste Thier money. Like seriously?!