No friends☹️

So I’m about to be 21 and got married at 18. I had a decent amount of friends in high school and a few in college, but they all seemed to disappear as soon as I got married (it wasn’t because of my husband, he was in our friend group) I’m not really sure how to make friends since I’m a full time nanny (mon-Friday 8am-5pm) and I am no longer in school. It’s depressing thinking about the 2 people who are going to take me out for my 21st and one is my mom😒 any suggestions?