It’s my birthday

I just needed to get this off of my chest and tell people who might understand. Today is my birthday and I’m not someone who ever makes a big deal or anything but this year was the first year that my husband and I are not only in the same place (military) but we also have the money and time to celebrate. Well I got sick on Monday and I even had to call off of work Tuesday which I never do. My husband didn’t seem to care about my birthday or make any plans at all so I suggested even though I was sick Tuesday, I didn’t go to work, so let’s go out to dinner for my birthday. We went and even that was so shitty because he was in a bad mood and wanted to go to a bunch of places to shop when I’m obviously sick. To please him I just sucked it up and went anyway even though I was sick. Oh! Did I mention I was 30 weeks pregnant ?! So that just adds to it. Anyways skipping to today on my actual birthday I woke up still sick but better than yesterday and I went to work. I got out at 2pm after an 8 hour shift(I usually work 10) and I met him at the doctors for an ultrasound. It was nice to see the baby and it was something I was looking forward to. As soon as I left my job I started feeling so much worse and I still had an hour drive to get to my appointment half an hour early. So by the end of my appointment I was feeling terrible. Well I wanted to go home and rest/watch movies/relax and he all of a sudden wanted to run errands and do a bunch of stuff that could’ve definitely waited!! It upset me but I still held back and said okay I’m really not feeling well so can we just do it tomorrow? He says no (of course) and that he thinks it should just be dealt with so we don’t have to worry about it. It’s definitely not anything to worry about. He just likes things to go his way basically. So we decide that he’s just going to go to two places alone and I’m going to drive straight home. We were on the phone on Bluetooth and I was trying to lighten the mood by asking him which place he’s going to first. He says he’s going to go to the place that’s past our house first rather than the place that is on the way home from where we are going. This doesn’t make logical sense to me but I didn’t make any comment and just said oh ok. He got all pissed off and starts yelling that he doesn’t need my permission and doesn’t have to check in with me on everything he does blah blah blah and I just hung up because I just didn’t need that drama. So I went home and waited for him. He never called back or texted which I knew would happen. He comes home and doesn’t even acknowledge me and just goes about his day. I just laid down in the room and rested a little because after all I’m still sick. I’m trying to be patient and let him do what he needs to do and then I realize how stupid I am because he won’t ever let his pride go and break silence between us. So I walk out to where he is and make myself some tea. He points his head at the table and there’s flowers and his favorite candy that he always mistakes for mine lol but I always appreciate it anyways. Well I say thank you and I love them blah blah blah. Then I finish my tea and sit by my flowers. I mention one thing about how on his birthday I got him a little cake. I thought it was funny because earlier him and I couldn’t remember what I did for his birthday and I remembered that little part. Well he just rudely tells me that he doesn’t remember and even when I try to explain it or jog his memory he just gets upset. He starts going off about me being passive aggressive or something and I’m just in shock man. Like what the hell? Where did he get that from? I was just trying to have a relaxing birthday and this jerk just wants to fight. I literally just poured out my freshly made tea and started crying and went to the room to lay down. He may have not seen me crying because I tried hiding it but he doesn’t seem to give two shits that I’m upset. He’s just on his stupid phone !!!! Sorry for this long ass explanation but I’m just so sad man. My feelings are so hurt. He couldn’t our errands on pause for me even though I’m sick ? And couldn’t push his stupid comments to the side for this one stupid day ?!!! Ugh I just don’t know