Relationships

Hi ladies!! This is my first time writing here and I didn’t think I was ever going to do this , but I need to know what other girls think about this lol. So... let me begin.

Ive been with my bf for about 2 1/2 years and I still live with my mom and he does as well (btw Im 22 and he is 23). He always says he wants to marry me and have kids with me and all of that. Today my mom had like a talk with me while he was at my house basically about me moving out with him. I know we are not there yet financially speaking but that is the goal. So she told me she is having a little bit of a rough time with money and that money is not enough to pay the rent of the house and so that we would have to move somewhere else but she also said like for me to find a place with my bf and stuff.

So after he left I texted him and I was like “I know we are not ready yet and idk what im going to do but I have to move out of my house so that my mom can enjoy her money instead of wasting it on rent”. He didn’t say anything about moving in with to help me pay the rent of whatever place I find. Instead he was like count on me if you need anything I support you in whatever you are going to do. And then he told me that he wasn’t going to leave his house, at least not for now. And it got me thinking, what is he was the one that had to leave him? I know that if that was the case I would have my bags done already and ready to move with him but clearly he isn’t and it kinda hurt me that we wouldn’t leave his house to move in with me and help me because he is waiting until he is financially independent completely. So ladies sorry this is so long but I really need some opinions on this and what do you think... maybe Im over thinking it or would this bother you too? 🧐