I HATE MY INLAWS AM I BEING RUDE

Okay so I have terrible in laws like the worst but sometimes I feel like because the relationship is strained it causes me to get over stupid things so I’ll start with a quick background story

I basically moved in with my in laws because at the time me and my mother was not getting on (long story)

But when I moved in my god (I moved out) 😩

My partners mum ALWAYS tries to argue with me when I lived there from what I eat to how I looked to how I wasn’t providing the family a child 😩

When I lived there I was so depressed, because she was always there she would argue with me if my mum was decorating her house or if my mother had something she did not and she would always make me feel bad for it.

I never told her she just use to listen to my phone calls then argue with me after saying I was trying to rub it into her face!

She’s a really jealous person!!

If I bough a new bag she would say she bough that and I stole it

She’s accused me of stealing her clothing

Being horrible to her

So anyways I moved out I couldn’t live there but she insists on always coming around!!

We don’t have children (we are trying) because my partner does have a low sperm count but she always blames me telling him to leave me if I can’t give him a kid!

I will be washing our clothing and when she is there she will say things like “so does like his clothes washed like that” and it’s the same for food she will try take over IN MY HOUSE!!

She will come around unexpectedly when she knows we both work full time and expect us to take her somewhere before work or cook her breakfast!

She doesn’t do this to her son though because his job is to important just me!

My so always argues with her but she never listens! NEVER

We have stopped talking to her but she doesn’t get the hint and still comes around arguing with me!

Never him!

She get jealous when he takes me somewhere asking why she couldn’t do that with him and why he never takes her anywhere when in reality he takes her out loads!

My so has a sister and we was not speaking to them because his sister refuses to let her kids call me auntie yet I’m MARRIED to her bother and have been for the last 2 years -_-

She also turned me and my partner away from her door because we don’t give the kids money or presents when we visit (IT WAS NOT A BIRTHDAY OF CHRISTMAS)

When we do allow his sister into our home she will go into our food and take what she feels and so will his mum!!!

They have done it behind my back and to my face and they laugh about it behind my back! I think it’s personally creep but they stole some coco pops and I told them I spat in it!

I know I could have but I was so angry! Like they earn more then me and my hubby yet they want our food!!

Now my current problem it’s coming up to Christmas!

His sister had demanded that we spend on £100 on each of her children! So she wants me to spend £200 on her kids then she has asked us to spend £100 between her and her partner so £300 on Just her family!

I said to my partner that is extreme and I not willing to spend that much ( we have the money but why should we spend that much money on people don’t even see all year around only on birthdays!!!

So then his mum said I have spend £100 and his Mum and dad to make it fair!!

I obviously was very angry and told them all to fuck off! They are like I want this and this and this and this and I’m like I want a you to fuck off!

So me and my mums relationship is really good and my so asked me who’s home we was having dinner at and when he asked his mother what she was going she said she was going to her daughter and that we could join if we meet there requirements and give money toward the food

We obviously said we are going to my mothers home because like I said to his mother they are a pathetic family and need to get a life

But she’s always trying to cause arguments with me and I don’t know what to do anymore

She has bipolar disorder and I understand that it’s difficult for her but she’s like a bitch all the time, she’s never been nice to me EVER

SHE SLAGS ME OFF TO PEOPLE ALL THE TIME

She calls me a trouble maker!

But I’m so nice to her and all she does is argue and argue and I don’t know what else me and my hubby can we

We have spoken to her, argued with her and not talked to her, we banned her from our home, had meeting with her Doctors EVERYTHING

What do I do?

Thank you ❤️❤️

I know It was a long read xA