To wet?

I have been with my boyfriends now for six months. We have the most amazing sex I have every had! I never have a probably with get aroused by him. When we have sex it’s crazy how wet I get. (And stay wet even after a couple hours of ending). I’m also a squirter but I hold back from doing it when we have sex just cause I hate wet beds and he does to. I know just put a towel down but I can squirt repeat idly so it just soaks straight through it. So I don’t care if I have to hold back. One time after sex we were cuddling and talking about the round we just finished. I was soaked down there and we brought that up. He then said “when you get that wet it doesn’t feel good because it slide in to easily. ( back story I had a child with another man two years ago and still to this day I never feel like I’m to loose for a guy to want to have sex with me which I’ve been told by other men that it is definitely tight down there and he has also told me that too but it’s still an insecurity for me). So when he said that I got really butt hurt about it and my insecurities popped back up. He told me this about a month and a after ago and now when we have sex I’m back to what I used to to after I had my son is I do like kegal exercises making sure I definitely feel tighter while having sex. ( trust me not very easy). So when we having sex I’m concentrating on doing that more than on the sex. I’m just wondering am I wrong for being hurt by that comment? Do you think I should just forget about it? Should I talk to him about it?