Sex after vaginal delivery

I have a question for all mommy’s out there , after giving birth how long after did y’all really wait to have sexual intercourse ? I delivered 3 weeks ago I still haven’t had sex of course but just really wondering bc this time around after delivering my third child I don’t feel much pain as my previous delivery’s. My first born was born in November 2007 And I didn’t not have intercourses till New Year’s eve my second was born on August 2012 and did not have sex till Halloween lol