Crazy parents?

I was living with my parents and they started getting really controlling, i was 21, only living with them because after college it was just easier to get bills and stuff taken care of to live with them. But I had a curfew, I had to be home by 11, I didn’t even get off work until 11 most nights. I got T-boned in my car and we decided to use the money from my car to get my mom a new car, and I took her old one, so it wasn’t in my name (that was a mistake) and she started making me write my mileage down, wanted to know where I was going, when I was going, who I was with. My boyfriend lived 30 minutes away in the next town and she said I wasn’t allowed to drive out of town to see him. He did the tough mudder challenge and I told my parents I was planning on going with him to watch months in advance and the month of I started getting shit because I was planning on staying in a hotel room with him, and spending the weekend with him. My mom would come into my room and go through my things and I had bought a cute nightie for my weekend with him, IT WASNT EVEN REVEALING, and she took it and wouldn’t let me have it back. I was beyond pissed because it wasn’t cheap either. If I left my phone laying any place she would pick it up and go through it. I was on her phone plan but I paid her 200 dollars every few weeks for my phone bill. And I couldn’t keep a lock on it because she would threaten to turn it off. He and I started making plans for me to move in with him, he was buying a house. So I started packing stuff up and he would take it and I didn’t tell them I was moving because I knew that would be a really bad deal. I went and bought a prepaid phone and the day I moved out I completely wiped the phone I had been using and left the keys in the car and my bf picked me up. Then my mom filed a police report and lied and said I stole like 1000 dollars, I only had 400 dollars from my last paycheck, and said I stole a lot of stuff from her, when I literally just packed my belongings that I paid for with my own money that I worked really hard for. It was miserable. She said she would drop the charges if we paid her 800 for “that months bills” and she wanted my jewelry box that my grandpa had given me that I loved because it was his gift to me and I don’t have much to remember him by, plus all my jewelry that I had. Most of it wasn’t even expensive. And the promise ring that my boyfriend gave me, she expected me to give that to her too, and I told her there was no way she was getting that. We complied and gave her what she wanted because I just wanted her OUT OF MY LIFE. She did drop the charges, but still continues to harass me. She’s figured out where we live and has driven by several times. One day she knocked on my door for an HOUR and i just ignored her because I figured she would get the hint. And all that is NOTHING compared to the abuse I received from my dad my whole life. I’ve been hit, choked, emotionally and verbally abused. I have the lowest self esteem ever.

I found out through an old family friend that my mom has breast cancer again, and I feel bad for her, but at the same time I still don’t want anything to do with her. After everything she’s put me through I just can’t.

And a couple of weeks ago I received a bill in the mail from the doctor, for like 15000 dollars, its got her radiation charges and everything. I called them to ask why I was reviewing this bill, in another town and everything, and they told me she put ME down as the responsible party. For HER bill. I told them I wouldn’t be paying it, and they needed to change it immediately, and they did. But I couldn’t believe the nerve of that woman. 😡😡😡😡