Ugh!!!!! Rant/help/

So I recently brought to my boyfriends attention the fact that I’m bored with our sex life!! We do NOT do anything other than I give him head, then we do missionary, me on top or doggy and approximately lasts for 15 mins then I end up having to pee and then come back and I jack him off for 5-10 mins. No foreplay, barely touches my vagina. Literally EVERY FUCKING TIME we have had sex for the last TWO YEARS. I’m so frustrated. I talked to him about it and he didn’t see an issue, and asked why we would need to do something different. I have asked to try blindfolding, handcuffs/tying up hands and for him to go down on me. He thinks all of those are weird and doesn’t like them or want to do them. Then he got mad at me and asked if I was mad at him because he didn’t want or liked to do any of those. I don’t want to force him to do something he doesn’t like or want. I told him I go down on him and I don’t particularly like or love it. And asked how he would like it if I didn’t give him head. His response was, “if it came down to that I guess.” I’m so frustrated with this. I don’t want to be petty. All I want is to spice up our sex life and have him go down on me. I’m so unsatisfied and it’s like he doesn’t even give 2 shits. :( I love him & don’t want to leave him because he “wouldn’t change the way he had sex with me”. If that makes sense. :( help :(