Trying to be stress free about it

So I’m in my fertility week, started yesterday according to the app. I don’t think my husband and I will bd more than once, hopefully it’s even that. 😕 I did chalk this cycle up to probably not our month at the beginning anyway but still. I haven’t had much in the way of cm, like last month I believe I had more, trying not to over think it. I have a half day Thursday at work (I work 8-5 generally and he works 4-midnight generally) so I said oh maybe we can have so fun before you leave for work Thursday since I have s half day. Maybe he said. Ok it’s supposed to be a peak day lol so would work perfectly if that’s our only day! I’m not banking on anything at this cycle though. Trying not to over think anything and keep it fun. So no OPKs or anything just looked at the app and checking cm. Does anyone else’s husband/ SO say “let’s see what happens” even though they want a baby but don’t want to stress about it? And you keep all the research and OPKs and when you’re fertile to yourself so it doesn’t stress them out?