Husbands been a bit naughty! 😡

So to cut a long story short, we had a baby 5 months ago. LO is fit and health but suffers with reflux and cows milk allergy so it’s a struggle at times.

We have decided we want two babies close together but me and my husband have different opinions. I want to wait until LO is 1 to try again, my husband would happily try now.

For birth control we are just using condoms as I’ve had nothing but issues with the pill and as we will be trying again in less than a year I don’t see the point in long term contraception and doctors usually refuse to take long term contraception out before 9 months to a year in my area.

So on the 9th December my husband and I did the deed. As we were getting into it he opened the drawer (where the condoms are) then we had sex. Anyway it wasn’t until after (it was dark) that I realised he hadn’t put a condom on?! 😫 I was so angry at him after and asked him why he went into the drawer if he didn’t pull a condom out and he had no answer.

According to Glow it was 2 days before my most fertile time! Anyway I got the morning after pill and I thought we were done with it. Then the next night we had sex again but this time the condom split!! I had no time to do back and get another pill as we were going away the next morning for the weekend (Thursday to Monday) and had to leave early before the doctors opened so had absolutely no way of getting a pill! What’s the likeliness I’ll become pregnant? If I took the morning after pill the night before?

I love being a mummy but I’m not ready. Not to have 2 babies under 1 & a half!!