First time

Hey guys, so my bf and I have been talking about sex for a little while now and we both have decided we're ready, but I'm just really scared that I'm gonna get pregnant, but he said he won't do it without condoms anyway, but I'm just scared that it's gonna brake and yeah,

but I read things online saying that your first time really hurts and you bleed for a little bit, and I'm scared I'm gonna get judged by him and end up pregnant, someone please reply with advise xox