Clarification and Help

I made a post elsewhere before, and it got out of hand. So let me clarify. Yes, I'm 17. Yes, I am TTC. Yes, I realize most of you won't support that. I respect how you feel and I'm asking you to respect the decisions I have made. If you are concerned I'm not ready and have questions for me, feel free to ask them RESPECTFULLY. Please do NOT make accusations and assumptions about my decision and situation. Believe it or not I HAVE thought this through, and all though i still have unanswered questions I am responisble and ready. I have time to figure things out. I'm not here asking for your support because, frankly I don't need it. But I also don't need the school, adult, "you're still a kid yourself" speeches. I have a plan, and if you would like to hear it and/or help me with it feel free to give your input. But please, PLEASE, do not try and make me feel inadequate to do this because this is what I believe is next for me and what i believe i will be good at, and I just want help be prepared. I understand judgement is a part of this, but I respect you so please respect me. All I'm asking for is advice