Second best..... 😢

I’m starting to feel like I’m second best in my husbands life like I’m not important anymore and I’m in slot 2 for everything. I’ll want us to hang out together and he’ll decide to play video games. I’ll want to stay home one weekend to relax and he drags me out to hang out with people cause he wants to. Don’t get me wrong I love seeing my best friends in the process but just once I’d like for him to want to be with just me. Since we got engaged 3 years ago and then married last year he’s been completely different like he doesn’t have to try anymore. I went all out and got him lots of stuff he wanted for Christmas and in return he went and bought gifts for his two best friends and told me “ oh I’ll just take you shopping after the holidays”...... that hurt. even if he just made me cookies or something I’d be happy but no his friends gifts were the most important thing. He didn’t even buy something for our baby. (Baby is due in may) I told him that he should buy one thing for the baby and he didn’t want to. I’m starting to feel like he will barely be there when this baby is born that I’ll be doing everything so he can play games with his friends. I don’t want to feel like I’m being dramatic or snotty I just want some alone time with my husband and he can’t even give me that. I’ve told him and told him but it seems like he’s not listening to me and i don’t know what to do