is this normal??

I was with my last boyfriend for four years, he was really selfish in bed. No foreplay, nothing. Straight to fucking, then when I was done I had to suck his dick for however long to get him off. He never fingered me, kissed me, oral, nothing. I have a new boyfriend now and he doesn't even put his dick in me when I beg until he gets me off by oral, fingering etc at least three times. And sometimes, like a little bit ago, he will ask me randomly "hey can I eat you out?" Don't get me wrong I LOVE it but it's such a dramatic change that I'm wondering if I was with a sucker all this time or if my new boyfriend is just a rare guy that enjoys getting a female off