My husband is currently talking a woman 24/7 and he wants a divorce. He goes for training for a month he is in the army. He says that if I leave him alone this entire month he will think about marriage counseling to fix our issues. What do I do ?

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No. He wants the month to go run around and be single without you finding out or "pestering" him. Don't fall for his bullshit. 
Also adultery isn't taken lightly in the armed forces.

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Give him that month and when he physically cheats on you, go directly to his chain of command. Time for him to understand what consequences there are for his behavior.

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That's ridiculous.. he will *think* about marriage counseling?? Either he wants to save the marriage or he doesn't.  I wouldn't trust him. Counseling now or goodbye... that's my opinion... and I'm being nice by even suggesting the option of counseling at all. Even Jesus gave permission for divorce in the case of adultery!

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Count your blessings and run! You DESERVE so much better!

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Leave him, that’s bullshit. He talks to other woman and wants you to leave him alone so he can sleep with other people and pretend to be single and then come back to you. Don’t let him walk all over you and get away with that crap, because if you do he will think its okay and continue to do it. He doesn’t even care that you know he talks to other people.

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He will be worse in. I was active duty and a lot (not all) of the men cheated on their wives. Leave his ass. Make him cover the kid with Tricare.

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Kill’em😈🤦🏽‍♀️😂

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He does for training in a couple days. So we’d have to wait till he comes back as well. But I just don’t know what to do

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Thank you all. I’m really considering it. I deserve so much better

My husband is currently talking a woman 24/7 and he wants a divorce. He goes for training for a month he is in the army. He says that if I leave him alone this entire month he will think about marriage counseling to fix our issues. What do I do ?

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