I am 43 and no longer wanting to conceive, but I don't understand why some people are pregnant without even trying or pregnant on the 1st try. My ex and I tried from March 2015 to August 2015 where I finally decided to try preg prep and was pregnant on the 1st try. When he was trying with his ex wife it was 1st try. When it was his ex girlfriend it was 1st try. When the condom broke in December 2014 we stopped using anything and started trying in March 2015. I guess I should just accept that I will only be a mother to the one we lost.