So my husband has just joined the military and he is currently in basic training. We have talked about having another kid because our daughter has just turned 2. I have debated that if he has a break in between basic and tactical training on trying then because it will only be 9 weeks till he is finished with that and we will have to move and I will know before we move and we can surprize out families. But I'm not sure if we should wait till after we are settled in our new life style first. I am open to any and all opinions.