Bad mom?
I've been supply - demand with my child since he was born. I never put him on a sleep chedule, only fed him when he was was hungry etc etc. At my mother's group and from listening to other mom friends there seems to be this general consensus that you need to be with and watch your baby all. the. time. I've never forsaken a shower or toilet trip for my son (as long as he isn't screaming) and I've never taken him in the shower or toilet with me, even as a newborn. As long as he's in a safe place (crib, play mat) I never worry about leaving him for a few minutes to get things done. My husband and I quite often put him in his room or on the play mat to have a few minutes to ourselves and he's generally happy playing with his toys and rolling around the place. Is it bad that I don't have this instinct to hover over him constantly? I can leave him for half an hour at a time and until he cries for attention he's pretty happy just being alone. He gets lots of attention during the day, I read, play, sing and walk with him and go to mom's group once a week.
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