Advice! Am I exaggerating!? NEED ANSWERS

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Okay so since being pregnant I’ve became even more self conscious about my body. Now it wasn’t helping me seeing my SO watching videos of girls with big butts or boobs. I’ve asked multiple times for him to stop & explained how it makes me feel even worse about myself. Now last week, he watched videos of girls “working out” but the camera was just angled onto their asses. We argued bad & he told me he was sorry & wouldn’t do it again cus he knows how much it bothers me. This morning I wake up around 5am to see him watching another one of those videos! Expect this one is just of a girl shaking her ass around her house. Like always I approached him on it, this time a little more hostile because I’m tired of feeling this way & repeating myself to him. Then he has the audacity to tell me he wasn’t watching it when I JUST SEEN HIM CLEARLY WATCHING IT! (I’ll attach a pic below of how the girl had looked). But long story short, we haven’t talked most of today now, he’s been out with his brother all day & he just doesn’t comprehend where I’m coming from or why I feel this way. Tbh I wanna do something to get him back but I don’t wanna be so childish. Am I over-reacting or have every right to feel this way after it happening multiple times now?

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If he's sorry, why does he do it over and over? If he respects you, why hasn't he taken your feelings into any consideration? He's only thinking of himself. You know what I'd do? Tell him to kiss MY ASS goodbye ✋

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Men are visually sexual people but this is taking it a step too far. If he loved you he wouldnt be doing this especially since he knows it hurts you. Maybe put booty shorts on make a fake instagram profile (post pics of your booty) do it infront of him & say "oh these guys were watching me "work" out..you do it why cant I?" LOL thats what Id do.

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I think you’re taking it too personally. 
Just because he likes to look at hot chicks doesn’t mean he doesn’t like to look at you too. I like to see a hot guy with no shirt but it doesn’t take away from how I feel about my SO. He should be reassuring you when you catch him that it means nothing and you’re beautiful etc, if he’s not then he’s just a selfish asshole and won’t ever change lol. Guys in general just like to look, they are 1000 times more visual than we are. 
My man looks at porn probably daily and I have never been bothered by it so I am probably the wrong one to judge this situation.

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Uh, I’d be pretty pissed too. If you’ve expressed that you don’t like him watching these kinds of videos and he continues doing it, then he’s purposely being disrespectful.

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Make a deal with him - tell him that the more his words and actions let you know just how beautiful and sexy you are, the less upset you'll be about his interest in these videos.   At the end of the day, you need to do what you need to do to feel good about yourself and getting annoyed with him won't make you feel any better.  So if he keeps it up, go out and spend time with people who make you feel good and/or pamper yourself.  Life's too short to stress about the ignorance of men!

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If purposely start liking pictures of sexy ass men and nude guys and show him and make a point to say they're sexy and see how he likes it... But that's just me.

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Maybe he just like to look a nice butts?

Advice! Am I exaggerating!? NEED ANSWERS

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