Why do women switch up outta no where

The one thing I hate the most at people do is When do you like to come around and try and flirt with you but don’t fully put the effort into actually pursuing you it’s like you’re open and you have a crush on them and you want things to kind of move forward but for some reason they just don’t and then that’s what annoys me about because wire for with somebody without the intentions of moving things along that is playing games that I’ve been through enough relationships to know that when somebody does that they’re just trying to see what kind of options they have and if they could see to start something with you in case they need you in the future and that is what I just hate like don’t flirt with me ever if you know you’re not going to try to start actually something and was sad is we are the same horoscope sign so I don’t think I don’t understand what it’s like to be the same sign under the same emotional conditions and all that so it’s a little bit disheartening

because like I had a crush on this girl for a while when I first saw her I really didn’t think nothing of it but then out of nowhere she seemed really attracted to me and then I wondered if she liked women also but she really wasn’t flirting with me so I was like maybe she just doesn’t like women at all so I kind of let it go and you know move that was my life and Just started to do my own thing I wasn’t dating anybody or talking to anybody so basically I’m a free person right now but I was talking made me think like gosh I miss being in a relationship and having companionship with somebody who wants to listen to your thoughts but the one thing is why do people do that and that I don’t know we’re just switch up and disappear that bothers me and it makes me feel like that you think I’m not worth going forward with into a relationship so that we haven’t spoken a couple days cause I guess when a conversation gets it’s dry with you is because they’re getting happy with somebody else that’s why hate getting close to people at all anymore.

Just don’t come around at all if you’re goin to show affection but leave just like that and get dry and I didn’t really do anything because I’m an open person to people and I like too open up but when you know you start shutting down and you know you do that don’t even say hi to me because I get close to people to quickly to have everything just leave cause they want too.