I get wet but I don’t feel pleasure. Pls help!!!!!!!

Okay so I’ve been having sex for more than a year now and I’ve had some sex but the thing is when I do, I get wet and creamy during sex but I don’t feel the pleasure if that makes sense, sometimes it kinda hurts too., like the d looks bomb and my dude knows what his doing but it’s just me,.. one time I think I squirted a bit but I didn’t feel the excitement you know.! Like is the problem with me or??? I’m so confused 😐