Problem with... Me

My boyfriend is overly sweet. But I feel like I drag the chain a lot. We love each other yeah and there's no one I'd rather be with

But there are times when he gets distant or dry - and then I start getting distant and dry too. Like this morning this happened randomly.

The context is that Mark is his best friend and I messaged him for the first time when he was with my boyfriend to tell them to be home at least by 4am. (They decided to go on a drive at 12am) My boyfriend never told me to not message Mark but says that he did so yeah.

Now, me and my boyfriend NEVER have disagreements so this convo might not be a big deal to some but to me it was new

I've re read it and... I've realised that I'm a massive poo head when it comes to texting him- like im the one who is moody and hard to put up with.

It's a long distance relationship by about 7000miles (12000km) but we see each other as regularly as possible. I've gotten worse as the relationship continues with things like how fast he replies (sometimes leaves me for like 2 hours - then gets annoyed and confused if I ask him about what he's been up to)

It's me who has to change my expectations, isn't it?