Is my relationship weird to others?

I'm not asking because I'm going to change it in any way, we're both happy. I've just been getting some rude comments about it (all comments are welcome, it's just that I don't really understand why I'm getting them and I would like some insight). This post will be centered around things I've gotten those comments about.

1) I have his phone password, he has mine. We don't search through each other's phones, don't look at each other's messages/calls unless asked to do so by the other.

2) We have a shared Instagram

3) I do multiple things for him (ex. cook, clean, household things) because he is the primary money-earner in the home, he works more hours than I do and works a ton harder than I do. (I only work 5-7 hours a day in an office, he works landscaping)

4) We do whatever he likes on the weekends, usually skateboarding. However, if I want to do something, he makes time for what I'd like.

To me, none of these things make him seem "abusive", or make me seem "in need of mental help".. what about you guys? I think some of these people are just unhappy in their own relationships (or lack thereof) and don't like others to be happy..