New marriage with no sex

I’ve been married for less than 2 years, so I can easily take you to the beginning and to present day.

I met my husband back in August of 2015 when I was his waitress. We didn’t talk again, but about a month later I run into him at the local Denny’s followed by Walmart. He friends me on Facebook and shortly after we go on our first date. We have great sex, I leave in the morning and we meet back up regularly for sex. I’m basically already living at his house. Anyhow, sex was great but the relationship was shitty. He was sleeping with other women because he didn’t think I was a good fit. So a few months later, we ended up rushing to get married since he has a custody battle and is moving out of country with the military. Sex life just about halts completely a month before we got married... and hasn’t really picked up. He masterbates, and that wouldn’t be a problem if I was getting laid. I resent my entire marriage, and don’t talk to anyone about it because I don’t want people to look down on him. I have a HIGH sex drive and he’s just not doing it for me.... like ever. It’s only been two damn years! I can’t do this shit forever.

Does anyone have some advice?