ANAL😈

Okay so me and my boyfriend have always joked around and stuff about it, but we really both are ready to do it and try and see what its like. I am a little nervous I don’t know what to expect. Yes I know everyone is different and we all have different experiences, I just simply wanna have some girl talk about it like are there any tips or pointers someone could give me like whats the best position to try anal in for the first time, or what are yalls experiences with it anything feel free to let me know😂 also has anyone tried desensitizing cream? Does it work? Is it worth it?